#MeToo

My mission statement, to put it simply, is to see, and be seen. Seeing, in this case, largely means listening, witnessing, acknowledging, validating. To the women speaking their truth and sharing their stories, I see you. I’m paying attention. I’m heartbroken, and I’m applauding you at the same time. Sharing the hashtag alone is an extraordinary act of courage. Sharing the details is a revolution. Thank you, sincerely, for lifting the veil, for shining a light, for making the darkness conscious.

Seeing has always come rather naturally to me. It’s being seen that presents a greater challenge. I’m sensitive to women being at the forefront of this movement, and by no means intend to eclipse the experiences of the countless women who have and will come forward. My intention is to be seen, to lend support, to break the silence, to add to the noise, to add one more voice that says “You are not alone.”

When I was six-ish years old, I was sexually abused. My perpetrator was male.

Sexual abuse is a convoluted issue. Yes, the #MeToo campaign is about women, and yes, men are victims as well. I’ve heard concerns regarding men sharing their stories at this time. I don’t what’s right. I’m no expert. But my heart makes this request: Please acknowledge and validate each other, regardless of gender. Please honor the courage it takes to step forward and speak up.

Author/speaker Brené Brown describes vulnerability as the “birthplace of innovation, creativity and change.” Vulnerability is spilling onto the page, onto the News Feed, onto the World Wide Web. The pain is great, and so is the potential for change.

As a coach, my mission is to help those who’ve experienced trauma reclaim their sense of positive self-worth and personal freedom. I’m here to listen without judgment. I’m here to see you, on the good days and the bad. I am a resource. Please reach out to me. Do not hesitate.

Keep sharing, keep uncovering, keep breathing. Know that I’m seeing with empathetic eyes because, one more time, #MeToo.